TS, if that?s what makes your mom happy eh. Life is too short tapos di mo alam kung kelan ka mawawala or magkakasakit kaya for better to live your life the way you want basta ba wala ka naapakan tao or napapasama ka.ĭi din nalalayo age ko! And I?m active in my sports, zumba, yoga and other activities!īut since I?m on the conservative side, I just wear gym clothes that I?m comfortable with. Diba nga ginawa na nila pag aalaga sa mga anak now na malaki na mga anak its time naman na hanap sila na pagkakaabalahan nila aside sa pag aalaga sa bahay. Hindi naman kasi porke matanda na dapat wala ng social life or tipikal na taga alaga ng apo or staying home lang. May tiwala din kami sa kanya pagdating sa mga ganyan bagay kung ano un appropriate. Siguro kasi kilala ko mom ko hindi basta na iimplwensyahan. ![]() Mga friends din sya bagets at mahilig gumala. My mom palaayos pa rin minsan naka sleeveless or spaghetti depende sa lugar. Ok nga nag zuzumba alaga ang katawan, dapat ba pagnagzuzumba balot na balot? Ewan ko lang ha sa pinas kasi parang dapat lagi formal or pamanang kapag matanda na? Sa observation ko un mga oldies dito hindi naman pinapakialaman or pagtatawan kapag nakapang sexy lalo na pag summer. Wala namang magbibigay ng advice na iwanan mo if walang complaint na narinig diba? If I were you, get tot he bottom of it before judging your mom too quickly.Ĭurious lang ako so ibig sabihin kapag 50's na hindi na pede makipag mingle sa mga young generations? Or magsuot ng damit na gusto nila basta na hindi over revealing. It seems maraming complaints and open-up ang mom mo so she hears that advice. The first thing that came to mind with your story is NOT that these friends of your mom are bad influence, but that WHAT HAS YOUR MOM BEEN TELLING HER FRIENDS FOR THEM TO GIVE HER THAT ADVICE? At 50s, an individual with a well-lived life would be content and would reach self-actualization - where they spend their time contributing to society, to others, helping others, etc. On the advice of her friends na iwan ang dad mo - don't minimize that either. You are simply seeing your mom in a different light so it irritates you but I think your annoyance over this is misplaced. Hindi lang mga teens, tweens, twnties or thirties ang may karapatan dyan. Calling each other 'sis' or any other term of endearment in any stage in life? I don't see anything wrong with that. She's enjoying it ESPECIALLY now, kasi nga she got married too young and missed out on what our generation now typically does (sulitin ang mundo) before settling down. At any age, 80/70/60/30/20 years old - we as humans will always feel the need to 'belong' - so having a barkada is normal. But don't minimize or invalidate her needs or thoughts. Sis, normal lang yan - mahirap intindihin kasi wala pa tayo sa age ng nanay mo.
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